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Embrace the joy of missing out MinimalistSelf Love

Embrace the joy of missing out

JOMO (Joy of Missing Out) Oh the joy of missing out.  When the world begins to shout And rush towards that shining thing; The latest bit of mental bling – Trying to have it, see it, do it, You simply know you won't go through it; The anxious clamouring and need This restless hungry thing to feed. Instead, you feel the loveliness; The pleasure of your emptiness. You spurn the treasure on the shelf In favour of…
hiddy
January 2, 2020
Create Christmas traditions that really matter MinimalistSelf Love

Create Christmas traditions that really matter

5 reasons you should give experiences as gifts this Christmas The kids rip through the wrapping paper at lightning speed, not slowing down for long enough to enjoy the gift before moving onto the next. At the end of the day, they’ve received so much stuff they can’t remember what they got (or who gave it to them) and you’re wondering where on Earth you’re going to put it all. Sound familiar? Maybe it’s time…
hiddy
December 17, 2019
How to be a minimalist in 1 simple step Self Love

How to be a minimalist in 1 simple step

The benefits of simplifying your life So, you want to know how to be a minimalist? Or does the thought make you want to run for the hills? Just the word ‘minimalism’ makes some people cringe. It conjures up images of stark, white walls, sparse furnishings and a half-empty wardrobe. For some of you, this would be a welcome breath of fresh air, while for others their first thought would be “we’ve been robbed”! The…
hiddy
December 2, 2019
Q&A with Hiddy Slow Down

Q&A with Hiddy

Yes, sometimes I rush too This week’s blog article is a little different. In my work developing digital courses and content for my slowing community, I’m always focused on you and giving you the most value and support I possibly can to learn how to slow down. But I also understand you want to know a bit more about me. Truthfully, it feels a bit awkward to talk about myself – I’m far more interested…
hiddy
November 11, 2019
The importance of rest and relaxation Slow Down

The importance of rest and relaxation

You don't need anyone else's permission to slow down I’m not going to insult your intelligence by telling you it’s important to rest and relax. You already know that. So, let me ask you? If you understand the importance of rest and relaxation, why aren’t you doing it? Why aren’t you honouring yourself with time to recharge, time to daydream, time to just BE? I talk to LOTS of women and I’m struck by the…
hiddy
November 4, 2019
How to stop comparing yourself to others Self Love

How to stop comparing yourself to others

You’re enough, believe me when I tell you that Am I good enough? Why can’t I be as pretty as her? I wish we could afford a big house like the neighbours. Everyone is guilty of trying to keep up with the Joneses sometimes, but ultimately comparison serves no purpose but to make us feel unworthy. That’s why I think it’s so important to learn how to stop comparing yourself to others. Don’t get me…
hiddy
October 28, 2019
The year I lived on less than $40k Self Love

The year I lived on less than $40k

Why it’s important to know how to manage your money   In 2018, my two kids and I lived on less than $40,000. It was incredibly challenging. I know many single mums find themselves in a similar position and that’s why you need to know how to manage your money and develop a good understanding of your finances. During my separation and divorce, the family home was sold and I lost my six-figure salary (I…
hiddy
October 22, 2019
How to create a vision board Self Love

How to create a vision board

How visualisation can help you set goals  A lot of people are not where they want to be in life. There could be a million reasons and many of them might sound familiar to you. ·        Maybe you’re stuck in an unfulfilling job. ·        Perhaps you’re a single mum - parenting and working, always pulled in different directions, trying to please so many people. ·        Or…
hiddy
October 14, 2019
Easy ways to practice gratitude MinimalistSelf LoveSlow Down

Easy ways to practice gratitude

Sometimes it’s hard to be grateful. When you’re going through a truly rough patch in your life, or your kids are being extra challenging, giving thanks usually isn’t the first thing on your mind. But over the past five years I’ve learnt lots of easy ways to practice gratitude. They don’t take much time and have brought me many wonderful benefits. For me, practicing gratitude is closely tied to slowing down, simplifying my life and…
hiddy
October 5, 2019