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Move from empty to empowered Self Love

Move from empty to empowered

Tell me if this sounds familiar. You’re so deep into everyday chores and responsibilities, into looking after everyone and everything, into keeping things, life, your family - on track, that you feel you have nothing left to give. You’re empty. Worse, you sometimes even feel resentful that you don’t have more. More help, more time, more freedom. I’m here to tell you that it’s ok. You’re ok. We’ve all had times when life seemed unfair,…
hiddy
November 9, 2020
Housework – chores or ritual? Housework: chore or ritual?Self Love

Housework – chores or ritual?

It’s all well and nice to be talking about slowing down, doing less, self care and wellbeing, but we need to talk about the elephant in everyone’s room: housework. The latest Time Use Survey conducted by the Australian Bureau of Statistics identified that women spent almost three hours every day on domestic activities. Three hours! Every day! This is the average for Australian women, but I’m willing to take a wild guess that it’s not…
hiddy
April 27, 2020
#1 Why you can personally pivot DIYHome Renovation

#1 Why you can personally pivot

I think positive visual reminders are important for us all. It's a good thing to be reminded of our abilities to stay focused and flow; not compare ourselves to others; step up and do the work that is required; take responsibility for our life direction and show Grace no matter what. Positive visual reminders also help us to remember that we are way stronger than we think. I hope you enjoy this visual (giggle?!) reminder…
hiddy
April 3, 2020
Break free from mum guilt Self Love

Break free from mum guilt

Chances are, if you’re a mother, you’re no stranger to mum guilt. Whatever choices we make in our life and in our parenting, there is always a nagging feeling that we could do better, be more. Does mum guilt rear its head in your parenting days? It’s such a prevalent feeling that authors Ita Buttrose and Penny Adams called it Motherguilt and wrote a book about it. ‘Wanting only the best for their families, mothers…
hiddy
March 30, 2020
Morning routines: How to own your day Self Love

Morning routines: How to own your day

Do you roll out of bed excited to take on the day, or do you pull the covers over your head hoping for just five more minutes? Whether you’re a morning person, a night owl, or an exhausted mum burning the candle at both ends, a strong morning routine can set you up for success all day long. A morning routine is simply a set of daily actions that help you own your morning and…
hiddy
February 17, 2020
Teaching children about money DIY

Teaching children about money

Pocket money, saving and a smile jar We teach our kids so many important skills as they grow, everything from tying their shoelaces to driving a car. But one thing that’s often overlooked is teaching children about money. One survey of Australian university students aged under 20 found that more than 65% felt they didn’t have the financial life skills they needed as an adult. As parents, the time we have available to influence and…
hiddy
February 4, 2020
Create the life you want with a vision board Self Love

Create the life you want with a vision board

We’ve talked about how to create a vision board before, but here it is, in my thoughts again, because I believe it’s a super important and underutilised tool. Without a clear vision, we have no say in where we are heading. And without a visual representation of that vision, we can easily get absorbed in the busyness of everyday. Why create a vision board Look, I want to make it clear that a vision board…
hiddy
February 3, 2020
I know a thing or two about grief and loss Self Love

I know a thing or two about grief and loss

In 2013, my sweet little boho family relocated from Queensland and bought a stunning 25-acre New South Wales coastal property, an easy five-minute drive to the beach. We had our horses, dogs, chooks, a very successful business and so many plans for the future. I could never have predicted the grief and loss I was about to experience. I thought I was living the dream. I was turning 40 and about to celebrate my 10th…
hiddy
January 21, 2020
Why single mums need to slow down Self Love

Why single mums need to slow down

Solo parenting is a hard gig, be kind to yourself I never thought I’d be a single mum. So, when it happened, I was completely blindsided. My life, and my darling children’s lives, changed overnight. As a mum, I’ve always felt like women are the project managers of the home. I know that seems like a controversial thing to say, but it’s the truth. Even for married or partnered mama’s, tell me who does the…
hiddy
January 11, 2020